not looking for a debate but simply answers
that I have been wondering.
- Why is this so hush hush in the Chinese adoptive community? Understanding the potential legal ramifications for these birth families and handling the information with extreme care is one thing......having to say the words "birth parent search" under your breath whilst saying the secret code word, turning around 3 times and spitting over your shoulder in order to even discuss the topic seems to be another.....
- Apart from blasting your child's birth parents names irresponsibly across social media (should you be successful) why is there such a shroud of secrecy that befalls this topic?
- For those in the "No. I'm not going to search and don't plan on it." camp can I ask why?
- For those in the "Yep. Doing it now, or planning on doing it at some point" camp can I ask why?
Thank you for any feedback.
More on this from my view later.